subject:  5 Dangerous Myths About Getting Laid...


I recently chatted with Jon Sinn about his new easy process for getting women in bed called the Seduction Roadmap . 

According to Jon, getting laid is not as difficult as a lot of guys make it out be.

Here’s part of our discussion where Jon goes over 5 Myths that prevent a lot of guys from getting laid...

1. Myth #1: Approach Anxiety is the Only Anxiety Men Suffer From

JS: The first big myth that gets in the way of guys getting all of the sexual satisfaction they want, is that Approach Anxiety is the only kind of anxiety guys will have to deal with when it comes to getting laid.

In reality Approach Anxiety is often a symptom of a greater problem known as Sexual Anxiety.

Sexual Anxiety is the silent killer when it comes to meeting, attracting and seducing beautiful women. 

When you have sexual anxiety, you get nervous or uncomfortable when anything related to sex comes up. 

Sexual Anxiety can manifest itself as a reluctance to approaching, an inability to physically escalate an interaction with a woman, and even performance anxiety induced impotence.

That’s the bad news.

The good news is that Sexual Anxiety is very treatable. I’ve even put together a whole training on Sexual Anxiety that a psychologist friend of mine says rivals anything he’s ever seen in Behavioral Cognitive Therapy courses.

Myth 2: Women Are only Attracted to Men in One Way

JS: The next myth is that women only get attracted to men in one way. When you look at all the dating advice out there, they all treat attraction like it’s a one size fits all process.

This neglects the reality of the situation, which is that women get attracted to guys all the time for all kinds of different reasons.

In fact recently, I sat down with a couple of my really hot female friends to interview them about all the different ways they get attracted to guys, and I was blown away by how many different ways they told me they could become attracted to a guy.

So I grouped these different types of attraction into three major categories.

Value Based Attraction, Emotional Based Attraction, and Sexual Attraction.

Sexual Attraction was the biggest discovery we made. For a long time we believed that women were physically attracted to men. 

But in these interviews we learned that physical attraction is just a small slice of a larger piece of the puzzle known as sexual attraction. 

Sexual Attraction is a new breakthrough which allows you to build attraction through the conveying of sexuality. 

In other words we were able to "codify" what it means to be "sexy" to a woman.

So a big problem out there is that guys are using the first two kinds of attraction and COMPLETLY ignoring the third kind, which incidentally is the most important form of attraction for actually getting laid.

Myth #3: Women Are Not As Sexual As Men

JS: The fourth big myth keeping you from getting laid as much as you want to, is that Women are not as sexual as men. 

We already talked about how Women enjoy casual sex, but the next thing that guys have to realize is that women are as sexual if not more sexual than Men.

The power of the Female sex drive is incredible, in fact one need only pick up the book Sperm Wars by Robin Baker to see how easily and consistently women outsmart men sexually in order to get access to the best possible genes to make sexy sons and daughters.

So knowing that women are sexual creatures is one thing, but being able to unleash that sexual side of a woman is a whole other issue. In fact most men have no idea how to bring out that sexual part of a woman naturally and normally.

But it’s much simpler, than most guys think it is.

In fact to bring out a woman’s sexual side, all you have to do is talk to that specific sexual part of her personality. 

In psychology this is referred to as a subpersonality. Every woman has a sexualized subpersonality. 

It’s just that most of the time, men can’t bring that part of her out. 

Which is why I broke it down into a specific roadmap for unleashing her sexual side.

Myth #4: Women Don’t Enjoy Casual Sexual Relationships

JS: Yeah the third myth is something that most guys actually don’t want to believe. The myth is that women don’t enjoy casual sexual relationships.

The problem is that most guys don’t know how to frame themselves, the woman and the interaction in a way that makes all of a woman’s objections to sex simply melt away.

I call the process of getting rid of these expectations; Sexual Framing, and its a foundation of my Seduction Roadmap blueprint.

Myth #5: Seduction Only Has to Do with the Words You Speak

JS: The last myth is that “Seduction” has only to do with the words you speak.

One thing that always use to weird me out when I was teaching workshops every weekend, was watching how far away from the girls students would stand and how little they would touch.

If you are not touching a girl consistently throughout the entire seduction process, you are shooting yourself in the foot with a bazooka. Seduction is not about words. 

When it comes down to it the process of seducing a woman is a physical one. You have to get the woman comfortable with you touching her in three separate and distinct ways through out the interaction.